Living-in legalities
Feb. 6: An angry woman who came to the Madras high court premises on Friday for her divorce case hearing allegedly hit her husband’s lawyer with her slippers after the two had been involved in abusive verbal exchanges, near a family court on the second floor.
Many lawyers then ganged up and beat the woman in full public glare before she was arrested and remanded.
The woman identified as Gayathri, a resident of Sastri Nagar, was assaulted by advocates as she was dragged to the police station inside the high court premises.
The police registered a case of assault against the woman but have not initiated any action against the lawyers who had severely beaten her up.
It was only the magistrate at the seventh metropolitan court in George Town who noticed her swollen face and ordered that she be taken to the general hospital after remanding her.
In his complaint C. Balasubramanian, the lawyer who represented Gayathri’s husband, said that the woman had abused him and hit him on his face with her slipper. He also said that Gayatrhi and her father had threatened to kill him.
Gayathri’s lawyer, George William, told this newspaper on Friday evening that he heard the other advocate foul mouth his client.
“I went down to inform the police when the incident happened. Other lawyers asked me not to help my client. They never wanted me to support a woman who had assaulted a lawyer. She was also badly beaten up,” said George William.
“Her lawyer had not filed any complaint though she was assaulted by a group of advocates. We will certainly initiate action against those who attacked her as well,” a city police official said.
Labels: Chennai, Gang of Lawyers, Slipper, Woman using violence
Alimony generally means sum of money payable by man to a woman and in some rare occassions from a woman to man once they do not live together is a sign of moral bankruptcy. And here's why...
Labels: 498a, alimony, alimony laws, bankruptcy, business, employment, marriage, men, prejudice, prejudice to woman, tax laws
On 8th Jan 2009, Times of India carried an article that ferrets out Lawyer's greed
Labels: Dwimurti, Lawyers, Striking Lawyers, TOI Article, Two Faces
Recently, I started watching Hindi movies properly after a gap of over 20 years.
The main character, Zubeidaa, has overlapping shades to it. Zubeidaa has fiery feminist instincts and is rebellious and tempestuous until the end. At the same time she's feminine, vulnerable and very young. She chooses to live her life the way she wants to. After giving into paternal authority once in her first marriage, she isn't willing to throw away her chance for happiness the second time. Fully aware of the prince's previous marriage and family, she's ready to accept a strange environment and a different religion for the sake of love. She makes her choices and sacrifices willingly and knowingly. Karisma has surpassed herself as the passionate, defiant, willful and troubled Zubeidaa, the truly modern woman
Labels: Hindi Movies, list of movies, men, prejudice to woman, sexual molestation of men, Violence against men, Violence against women, women
Is the pain of a mother lesser when her son dies relative to when her daughter dies?
Is the pain of a sister lesser when her brother dies relative to when her sister dies?
Save Indian Family Foundation invites you to a peaceful gathering to protest against the rampant and blatant misuse of pro-women marital laws against men which are resulting in large scale suicides amongst married men.
Our IMMEDIATE Demands ARE :-
1. Clear the Pending cases in the Family Courts ASAP.
2. Allocate more experienced judges and increase the Family Courts.
3. Eliminate all gender biased in marital laws making them Gender Neutral.
4. Implements Checks within the system to prevent misuse of these laws.
5. Stop the treatment Men as FREE ATM MACHINES
6. Provide Services to Curtail High Rate of suicides of married men.
7. Establish National Commission for Men, and
8. Establish Men’s Welfare Ministry,
Please come to the gathering with your friends to share your views and to address the above or any related problems.
Date: 14th February 2009
Time: 9: 30 AM to 2: 00 PM
Venue: In front of Gandhi Statue on M.G. Road, Bangalore
Invitees: All citizens of India.
Proudly Supported by:-
1. Save Family Foundation, Delhi
2. MyNation Foundation, Delhi
3. Gender Human Rights Society, Delhi
4. Rakshak Foundation, Delhi
5. Mother’s and Sister’s Initiative, Delhi
6. Protect Indian Family Foundation, Mumbai
7. Indiya Kudumba Pathukappu Iyakkam Chennai
8. All India Forgotten Women, Hyderabad
9. Rishtey, Hyderabad
10. Save Indian Family Foundation, Nagpur
11. Bharat Bachao Sangathan, Kolkata.Volunteers you may Contact:
Virag - 99863 78801 (English)
Panduranga Katti - 94328 53272 (English)
Shiva Shankara - 97431 83369 (Kannada)
Prakash - 98804 36929 (Kannada)
93428 53272http://www.saveindianfamily.org/ 98451 43274
Labels: Bangalore, Charter of Demands, Contacts, Dharna, men, pain of mother, Violence against women, Volunteers
Few days ago, I came across the site that talked about the Empowerment of Women. The Proposed Bill succinctly said wants to increase the representation of Women in Lok sabha, Rajya Sabha and other such hallowed political circles.
Have a read for it yourselves at and then proceed into rest of this blog.
The Women (Empowerment for equal participation) Bill, 2005
Somewhere within the bowels of the document (page 4), you will discover something. For sakeof convenience, let us call it the ______ (something) that hides in the DETAIL.
It reads and I quote
Women despite being nearly half of the country's population, still remain socially neglected and economically dependent on others who may be parents, husband or children, are educationally backward and an exploited lot. Majority of them are confined to their houses looking after their children and household chores. Many of them are still superstitious, orthodox and backward because literacy among them and more so in rural areas is very low. Now only more awakening has begun amongst women and they have started playing a vital role in the polity of the nation right from village Panchayat to Parliament of the nation.
Regardless of whether you browse, sprint, scroll or read character by character, you will realise that the above mentioned ______ (something) that hides in the DETAIL. is the justification presented for the need of the bill ...
Inspite of being just an ordinary mortal, I am hazarding a guess that I will not be the only one that finds the justification baseless, completely vague and filled with ambigious statements.
Let us take the hazardous route and start dissecting the article, Shall we?
The very first thing that you (and every one) ought to realise is that the women for whom the reservation are purportedly being proposed fall into at least one of these categories
You are free to imagine any everyday Indian women who would be able to survive past any one of these criterions:
Lets start at the low end, say a woman with very little Economical Standing and who does have a man in her life on whom she can fall back upon. Lets take the Zaaduwali bai in your building. To keep the example simple, let us endow her with marriage but no children yet.
Do you honestly believe that when the Zaaduwali bai is informed of this reservation made for people in her category, will jump up and down in a thrilled state and then run off to grab her entitlement?
I can't possibly imagine. NO!
All right, Ok, let us keep climbing up the economic ladder. How about the barely literate Salesgirl with lousy English at the corner shop who sold you your television set?
Will She be happy with the reservation and join the queue to grab her entitlement?
I can't possibly imagine. NO!
Ok, let us keep improving the woman of our imaginations who will fit the above categories and still be willing to run for the Rajya Sabha? Let us fast forward
How about a Doctor with first class Medical Degree currently having 3 kids aged 18, 16 and 12? Kids are not too old, not too young and can be expected to manage on their own for few hours. She does have a Servant to help her with domestic chores. Such a lady happens to be my aunt and is considered very ambitious and as such well endowed. She likes to express her opinions loudly, firmly and then stick to her guns. She could possibly do well as a Politician.
She ain't exactly Educationally Backward. She was confined to her house because of the children although she can now be considered somewhat free. She is well off in average Mumbai terms. She runs a good practice but not exactly thriving so she may be economically dependent on her husband for the major part. She is not Socially Neglected.
I asked her to consider this proposal of reservation and she told me a reply that actually summed up the whole problem very neatly for me (and us)
No, If I wanted to do good for society and freed up from all of my ties, I'd rather go and work in a hospital or a Jail as a Doctor rather than deal with politicians.
She is happy to deal with Convicts in a prison or impoverished in a hospital rather than politicians.
I give up, folks!!!
I cannot imagine a woman who will fall into any of the above categories and still be willing to fill such a position can express such exploited state?
Let us reverse the situation. Let us imagine a woman who would want to take advantage of this roles. These role may bring in certain amount of power and so strive upon power hungry men and women.
Clearly the women who will be queing up to get those seats will fall in neither of the categores above. Maybe they will be mothers but they will certainly not confined to the house because of the children or household chores.
As it stands, the DEVIL is indeed inside the Detail
It is like throwing up a Free Soup Kitchen inside a Five Star hotel.
For those who are unaware with the phrase soup kitchen, it is usually a community run service that gives bowl of hot nutritious(?) soup with a loaf of bread to all those people in society who'd starve otherwise as they cannot afford to pay for it on their own. Soup and bread are normally given for free.
No beggars or truly impoverished will be allowed inside the five star hotel anyway.
Those who can afford or even think of entering the hotel and do partake free soup and bread will certainly be able to pay for it at a five star rates.
The one thing that is, at the time of writing this unanswered is that what happens to unreserved positions. Are only men allowed on remaining unallocated seats?If No, What measures are present within the bill to prevent all-female Rajya Sabha or Lok Sabha?.
Labels: Devil in the Detail, Empowerment of Women, Five Star Hotel, No Men in RajyaSabha, Prema Cariappa, Rajya Sabha, Reservation for Disadvantaged Women, Soup Kitchen